This messy situation just keeps getting messier.
After countless times of asking him to stop talking about her in the press, Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai recently made it clear that she is not friends with her ex-husband Tanzania singer Bernard Michael popularly known as Ben Pol.
Taking to her social media, Anerlisa blasted Ben Pol who has been adamant about being a victim in their failed marriage, saying he should focus on his music or get a job or even go back to school if his music is failing.
She said this after teasing her fans about outing Ben Pol before she had a change of thoughts.
“After a long calculation and deep thinking, I have seen no need to do an interview to answer Ben Pol about my previous relationship with him
”I realized it’s not really worth my time to talk about it because right now I’m better than that,” she said.
She asked her ex-husband to move on insisting that they will never get back together.
“But just to remind Ben, it’s been two years now since we broke up. I am not your wife and it is also clear that I cannot be your friend. Move forward with your life and stop thinking that we will get back together
”It can’t happen. You know very well that if I decide to do an interview to make things clear, I don’t know where you will hide your face.”
“So to avoid embarrassment, keep my name out of your mouth, don’t try to use it to push your music career, if you fail in music, find a job or go back to school,“ Anerlisa stated.
Meanwhile, In her effort to save her image to the public following an explosive interview, Anerlisa in a recent rant released screenshots of what seemed like their last conversation with Ben Pol during the festive season saying, “she is tired of being looked at as a bad person.”
This was after Ben sensationally claimed that he did not enjoy his marriage despite loads of lovely photos on social media while the two ex-lovers were dating and during their short-lived marriage.
Ben while speaking during an interview with Millard Ayo, he said;
“We started dating in 2018. Apart from our beautiful photos on social media, I never enjoyed my marriage. I never experienced what other people enjoy in marriage. I was seeming there to pose for the snapshots.”
While answering if Anerlisa used him to brand herself?
He said: “I am being neutral but in my perspective, we got married to complete the picture. It’s like she wanted to tick off marriage from her list.”
The ‘Moyo’ hit singer further claimed he was down to work on their marriage.
“The kind of level and dedication I had towards her is not something I had with someone. This was my first serious relationship.”
Anerlisa Muigai and Ben Pol got married in May 2020 during the pandemic but broke up less than a year later with statements from both parties at the time seeming to indicate irreconcilable differences.
Prior to their nuptials, the pair had been together since 2018. Their intimate wedding was held in Tanzania weeks after Anerlisa’s younger sister Tecras’ death.
